Male VTuber Guide
This is a handy guide for male vtubers who are interested in gathering a majority female audience. This document serves as a guideline with helpful tips, but it is not a guarantee for popularity. You still need to put in the work to grow your audience and market yourself. In this guide are frequently asked questions, resources, common terms, and specific examples to use as reference. This document will simply provide the information, but it is up to you what you do with it. This does not guarantee a large female audience, this simply exists to better understand your female fans. Keep in mind that the points stated here is told from a viewer's perspective but will not apply to all women, so be open to different possibilities, tastes, and preferences. In the end you will still have to be yourself and let your natural personality and mannerisms shine through. Your audience will always be able to tell when you are faking something outside of roleplay, so don't try too hard. Your instincts and improv skills will help you more than this guide ever will. Best of luck with your vtubing endeavors!
Disclaimer: *This guide is in no way a guarantee to fame, fortune, *
Warning: This guide will contain mentions and references to dark fictional content. Please read at your own discretion.
Prerequisites
Before attempting to use this as a guide, it is assumed that you have been an anime fan/otaku/weeb or in some type of media fandom for at least a few years. Following this section are key terms that not all anime fans may be familiar with, but have at least heard of. Knowing common anime and fandom tropes, mannerisms, and personalities will help you a lot to relate to and impress your audience. If you're not a weeb at all, you can still gather a large female fanbase by having some sort of background in fandom (Vox Akuma, Uki Violeta, Josuiji Shinri). Even if you aren't an anime nerd, having a nerdy interest will take you a long way.
Helpful terms that will be used throughout this guide
BL/Yaoi - BL, or Boy's Love, refers to stories involving a romantic relationship between two males. Originally created in the 1970s and marketed towards a female audience and started by female manga artists in Japan. BL or yaoi can refer to anime, manga, television dramas, video games, and original works.
Catering - (taken from Dictionary.com) verb. to provide or supply what amuses, is desired, or gives pleasure, comfort, etc. Usually used with a positive connotation.
Crumbs - In the context of fandom, small bits of content that a fan can use to create a scenario for discussion, fanfiction, or art.
Fanfiction - sometimes shortened to "fanfic", refers to a written fan work based off an existing franchise. Usually involve characters and a setting from the franchise where the fanfiction is written. Stories can range from AU (alternate universe) scenarios to romantic plots between characters.
Fujoshi - consisting of the Japanese kanji for "rotten" and "woman",
Fujobaiting -
Headcannon -
Himbo -
Ikemen -
Kayfabe - (taken from Urban Dictionary) noun. Term in pro wrestling. Kayfabe was the unsaid rule that the wrestlers should stay in character during the show and in public appearences in order to maintain a feeling of reality (albeit suspended) among the fans.
Kusogaki -
Kusoge -
Pandering - (taken from Dictionary.com) verb. to cater to or profit from the weaknesses or vices of others. Usually used with a negative connotation
Shipping -
Shota -
Yumejoshi - consisting of the Japanese kanji for "dream" and "woman",
Yumebaiting -
Contents
- Introduction
-[What is a cute boy?]
-[How do I become a "cute boy"?]
-[Getting to know the female audience] - Frequently asked questions
- Appealing to audiences
- What if I want to have a natural interaction with my male collab partner(s), but he keeps doing blatant fujobaiting? It's also making me uncomfortable with how aggressive he is with it.
- What if I still want to appeal to a (straight) male audience? Just to have a few fans to personally relate to?
- Playing a character
What if I'm not good at acting?
How do I know what kind of character trope fits me best?
What if I'm good at being a character, but my "real" self keeps slipping through?
How do I know what kind of character to play?
This is where your knowledge of anime personalities and character tropes in general come in handy.
Games to play
What kinds of games appeal to women?
What if I don't like the games most women might be into?
What if I want to play cool "manly"/"bro" games?
What if I'm addicted to a popular game like Apex or Valorant and want to play those on stream more often?
Tropes and Mannerisms
What if I don't know that many personality tropes? How do I know which one fits me?
Dilemmas and Difficulties
How do I market myself to a majority female audience?
Intro to BFE
Which do women like more, game streams or zatsus?
What if I get a large audience and they get too wild?
What if my audience doesn't mind if I talk to females?
How do I know who to listen to?
What are some mannerisms that women may hate? I don't want to drive anyone off too much.
What if I slip up and do some mannerisms that women may hate (lusting after a female character, cursing too much, telling a dick joke or using toilet humor, etc.)?
It's okay, we know you're human. (Use Luca's Cyberpunk example, Sonny saying cunt, Vox being vulgar and it being funny. Some women find it sexy to be degraded, but use it sparingly since a lot of women will still find it to be a turn off).
If I'm a male vtuber that wants to appeal to people who aren't interested in collabs with women, how do I let them know?
Other Resources
Anime popular with women that enjoy cute boy content
Notable Vtuber streams and moments with timestamps that are cute boys being cute
Not necessary, but popular and notable BL and otome manga that feature cute boy content
Introduction
The first thing to know about appealing to a female audience as a male vtuber is that they are all there for
Frequently asked questions
Appealing to audiences
Women tend to like when things are left to the imagination, so there's not much you need to do to appeal to them. This is why a man in uniform is considered sexier to most women than showing skin. And not all instances of showing skin is sexy to women either. This is a very important point to remember when thinking about trying to appeal to your audience, at least when it comes to fanservice. Take these magazine covers of Hugh Jackman as a good example:
On the men's magazine he looks manly, strong, and cool. Men usually self-insert into this type of man or use it as motivation to look like him. He may be showing skin, but he's not sexualized nor is this considered fanservice simply because of him being shirtless. Meanwhile on the women's magazine he looks gentle, friendly, and handsome. Women prefer a man who is less intimidating or "safe" looking. He may be wearing more clothes, but this would still be considered a type of fanservice because of how it is presented. There will be more on this later in the guide.
While most women prefer things to be left to the imagination, there's no harm in giving your audience something to work with on occasion. be sure ot mention how good Fulgur is at baiting for art and headcanons as an example
There will be lots of fans who enjoy being given food on a silver platter, but if you do it too often it can get stale and feel tiring. Savoring a treat once in a while feels more special than having that treat every day.
Who should I appeal to, fujoshi or yumejoshi?
As stated above, women typically prefer things to be left to the imagination. The fun part of shipping characters together is coming up with your own stories and headcannons. Your natural interactions with your collab partners is plenty of ship fuel for fujoshi. However, if your dynamic between your collab partner(s) happen to be on the chaotic and even horny side, there's nothing wrong with that either. Don't feel forced to act a certain way. Do what feels natural, even if that may be overly horny jokes elaborate here more
Fujoshi
more detail about how shipping works
Discuss differences in dedication between fujoshi and yumejoshi
discuss monetary differences in fujoshi and yumejoshi
differences in merch, donating directly, etc.
what motivates people to donate, etc.
What if I want to have a natural interaction with my male collab partner(s), but he keeps doing blatant fujobaiting? It's also making me uncomfortable with how aggressive he is with it.
Yumejoshi
refer back to how occasionally giving crumbs can help encourage yumes and make them feel more welcome
Overt yume fanservice (pickup lines, talking about scenarios involving the viewer, comparing a character in a game you're playing to your audience
Subtle yume fanservice (talking about your body (insert how Shinri talks about how naturally warm his body is), creating conversation where your audience can easily self-insert, creating a fun thing to remember throughout the stream (insert how Doppio takes his jacket toggle off at the beginning of the stream, tells his fans to hold onto it, then puts it back on at the end of the stream), even cool lines ("when I'm with (fanbase name), I can do anything!" during a horror game. Refer back to one of Flayon's early streams and how he didn't get scared at a jumpscare because he said he has you by his side) (insert how improv and creativity come into play here).
How do I know which one to appeal to?
touch on the topic of tropes, discuss personality and which ones are compatible with which types of audience
knowledge of some anime tropes comes into play here
discuss some popular anime and even games that help determine different tropes
discuss popular characters that fall into certain tropes and which audience they appeal most to. Note that characters can appeal to boy yume and fujos but certain characters are more fitting to appeal to one over the other.
Important Note: Regardless of who you choose to appeal to, commit to your decision. It is imperative to think about and decide if you want to cater to whichever audience you choose in the long run. Ask yourself if you are willing to cater to your audience in the long run. Think about it for a while and ask yourself if you are going to be comfortable doing this for a long time. No one wants to be hit with a surprise later that you never enjoyed doing this in the first place or changed your mind. You can end up damaging your audience's trust with this. If you aren't sure if you want to commit to how you are catering to your audience, try a little at a time. More details about this later.
What if I'm uncomfortable doing lewd fanservice?
Then don't 4Head
Explain how not all fanservice is lewd and the nuance between different kinds of fanservice
Appealing to a male audience while still having yumes and fujos
Refer back to not needing to pander too heavily to either audience and how you don't need to alter your own goals and and wants to appeal to both. However, keep in mind that there will be conflicts and you can't appeal to everyone (and that's okay).
Playing a character
talk about character tropes, personalities, dialogue, speaking, oral skills, improv, creativity, etc. here. Discuss the types of characters women tend to like (and discuss that women can even be into "bad" and mostly disliked characters and personality types)
What if I'm not good at acting?
What kind of character trope fits me best?
knowledge of tropes and characters comes into play here. Refer back to earlier discussion
talk more in depth about anime and other series popular with women here
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Playing popular or Flavor Of The Month games (Apex, Valorant, horror kusoge, etc.)
Games that appeal to women
Discussing otomege, gacha, horror, etc.
Talking during certain types of games
Discuss here how a fan seeing their oshi play a game they otherwise wouldn't be interested in would make them more interested in it as long as you show passion and love for the game
Playing popular games but making them interesting
insert discussion on how adding a twist to the stream can make it more interesting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Th0l2if0diQ