first page: HOME
sites that are linked at the top:
tumblr
art commissons
rentry / graphic / bundlrs commissions
my editing resources
information about me:
- my names are lavender or lilay
- i am 18 years old (january 2006)
- i go by they/she and i here is my pronouns.cc page
- i am half filipino and half australian
- i am a medically recognised person with dissociative identity disorder
- i am diagnosed autistic
- i have a girlfriend (llocket on tumblr
- i am omnisexual, demisexual and nonbinary!
second page: DO NOT INTERACT
do not interact:
- general dni criteria
- actively dislike/hate on any of my special interests
- you think body shaming jokes / abelist jokes / racist jokes or rape jokes are funny
- supports the idea of "endogenic" systems, radqueer or support radqueer
- proshippers or anyone under that umbrella (esp kaeluc shippers)
- people who like ageplay / ddlg / etc
my boundaries:
- do not dm me if you are 25 or over, or if you're 15 and under, talking in public servers or sending things into my inbox are okay though
- (THIS DOESNT COUNT IF YOU ARE COMMISSIONING ME)
- please do not casually and often say the r-slur in front of me (even if you can reclaim it)
- i'll get uncomfortable if you talk nsfw one on one with me (this includes any strong nsfw joke), i'm only comfortable talking about that topic with my partner!
- do not do any roleplay with me please! this includes actions like "hugs you" or anything like that, it just gives me the biggest ick
- if you DM me on discord and we don't have any servers in common / don't have any friends in common and you don't immedietly start off the conversation with what you want (like just saying "hi" or something) i will definetly ghost you until you say what you need, i've gotten people attempting to scam me a few times and they always beat around the bush so i'm very cautious now
- i ghost / block freely, if you make me uncomfortable i'll just leave the conversation or block you!
third page: BEFORE YOU INTERACT
basic boundaries / byi:
- i often make light kms/kys jokes / fake silly death threats around people who are okay with it
- i don't like being on calls with people other than my closest friends
- i don't really feel comfortable with you calling me a close friend or best friend unless you're jillian or locket, i only feel comfortable with having two friends honestly
- i have a really bad memory: so sorry if i forget things about you. please remind me about things so you can get my memory jogging!
- i talk A LOT about my partner because we just love them so much and love showing them off :3
- i will mirror your energy / personality (unless you're extremely close), it's an automatic thing for us since we're so used to masking
- i would prefer if you say that i "am autistic" instead of "have autism"!! autism's not my accessory it's who i am :D
system info:
i like using both "alters" and "parts" but i've been trying to use "parts" more
do not treat the introjects of our system like their source, we'll assume you're just trying to roleplay and not take our mental health seriously
i use we/us/our and i/me/my to refer to ourselves collectively interchangeably, but have been trying to use "i/me/my" more to be healthier!! (usually i now say "i, collective" or "i, as a part" now)
don't flirt with the parts of our system or anything, we are dating locket and are very loyal to locket
fourth page: INTERESTS
beware: lots of text ahead, you can skip this
NOTE: since this is an easy to read version i will most likely not update this more, i will either fall out of interests or gain new ones after posting this!
SPECIAL INTERESTS: genshin impact, glass animals,⠀rhett and link,⠀my little pony,⠀the office,⠀music in general, minecraft, autism / mental illness,⠀locket <3,⠀mario (kart specifically),⠀sheldon cooper,⠀cats
OTHER INTERESTS: saiki k,⠀dandy's world,⠀dorian electra,⠀danganronpa,⠀project sekai,⠀young sheldon, big bang theory,⠀omori
chappell roan,⠀billie eilish,⠀omori,⠀jazmin bean,⠀devilman crybaby, cherry crush,⠀gravity falls,⠀b99,⠀the good place
editing graphics / making bundlrs,⠀drawing,⠀spy x family,⠀nso,⠀mitski,⠀dress to impress,⠀beetlejuice,⠀one piece
tpn,⠀class of 09,⠀sex education (show),⠀dan and phil,⠀sabrina carpenter
arcane,⠀romantic killer,⠀horimiya,⠀suzume,⠀ever after high,⠀monster high, cold front, mouthwashing
MY TOP FAVOURITE CHARATERS: sheldon cooper (duh),⠀venti,⠀zhongli and tartaglia,⠀basil omori,⠀mari omori,⠀cherie (cherry crush),⠀akira fudo,⠀miki makimura,⠀princess peach,⠀creed bratton,⠀ kangel/ame, anya (mouthwashing)
GENSHIN: venti,⠀columbina/angelica,⠀zhongli,⠀tartaglia,⠀freminet,⠀lyney,⠀lynette,⠀furina,⠀mualani,⠀diluc,⠀xiao,⠀dottore,⠀yanfei,⠀razor,⠀chongyun,⠀nilou,⠀ navia,⠀xianyun,⠀albedo,⠀lisa,⠀paimon
DANGANRONPA: chihiro fujisaki, ⠀himiko yumeno,⠀ chiaki nanami,⠀ nagito komaeda,⠀ gundham tanaka,⠀ sonia nevermind,⠀ mikan tsumiki,⠀ toko fukawa,⠀ miu iruma,⠀ kokichi ouma,⠀ ryota mitarai,⠀ ibuki mioda,⠀ sayaka maizono,⠀ hiyoko saionji,⠀ usagi,⠀ kotoko utsugi
PROJECT SEKAI: tsukasa tenma, ⠀emu otori, ⠀kanade yoisaki, ⠀mizuki akiyama, ⠀rui kamishiro, ⠀nene kusanagi, ⠀ena shinonome, ⠀mafuyu asahina, ⠀saki tenma
DANDY'S WORLD: tisha, ⠀glisten, ⠀cosmo, ⠀scraps, ⠀goob, ⠀shelly, ⠀poppy, ⠀teagan
MY FAVOURITE SHIPS: zhongchi!!!!!!!,⠀ columbina x arlecchino,⠀ sunny x basil,⠀ basil x aubrey,⠀ haikaveh yuri,⠀ studfem wriolette,⠀ yantao,⠀ t4t chiscara,⠀ lionfish (ga-ming x freminet),⠀ lesbian pixelshark (butch kinich x mualani),⠀ diluc x dottore,⠀ cherie x crush,⠀ pam and jim,⠀ cosmo x sprout,⠀ sethoscara,⠀ eimiko,⠀ amber x eula,⠀ saiki x teruhashi,⠀ ruikasa,⠀ polysho,⠀ emunene,⠀ emurui,⠀ mizuena,⠀ kanamafu,⠀ loid x yor,⠀ zhongven,⠀ sciset,⠀ asaden,⠀ navia x itto,⠀ navia x clorinde,⠀ shamy,⠀ carmeliza (ocs),⠀ augustine x winnie,⠀ raj x howard,⠀ CAITVI,⠀ howard x bernadette,⠀ rarijack,⠀ ratio x aventurine,⠀ boothill x argenti,⠀ albedo x kaeya,⠀ sucrose x emilie,⠀ hori x miyamura,⠀ hajime x nagito,⠀ hajime x chiaki,⠀ jeckole,⠀ mio x shun,⠀ kazuha x wanderer
- i am a multishipper and aren't too gatekeepy or mean to other shippers, i dont care what you ship
- this is not in any particular order
fifth page: LINKS TO MY PART'S SITES
NOTE: since this is an easy to read version i will most likely not update this often
hosts:
valley
cherie
venti
basil
devilman
co-hosts:
other alters: