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🌿 ⠀⏖ ⠀before you interact / info ⠀:

• i don't have a dni, and i never will cause i don't find them to be useful. i do have some few boundaries for my own comfort but that's it.
• i'm always open to c+h if alone and super cool with sitting in silence
  • all my cuddles and kisses are platonic (i only really do heart emojis with a very small set of friends)
  • sorry if i get shy and move away if friends join you; like a vampire, i need to be invited to continue sitting
• i don't consider myself part of the hoyoverse fandom + don't care for most hoyo ships
• i don't personally do any ship talk about zhongli outside of my yumeship (i'm a non-sharing yume)
  • this is a safe self-ship / oc x canon space
  • i won't initiate anything in my OC skin if you're in a peepaw one unless approached first, mostly cause i don't want people to feel forced (considering the skin name is literally 'zhongli's beefy wife' LOL)
• i love chatting but i usually have low social spoons and am not good at initiating chats; i can also be horribly forgetful
  • if ur a green name, ilu and i hope you're having a fun time on PT, i'm sorry i don't talk often or am scared of starting convos 🥹
  • if you're someone i don't know/have friended, please don't say just hi, and nothing else ... i'm more likely to ignore that way (obvs this doesn't apply to sending crowns)
• my friend reqs are off and i don't accept friend reqs unless we've talked or if you're friends of friends, but feel free to ask if you'd like to be friends!! a heads up that i don't do discord friend reqs for the most part either
• idm if you use some of the tips and tricks i did for ponies as inspo (literally I can't put a copyright on item combos + patterns and I'm not going to gatekeep it), just don't like ... copy everything 1:1 or take my OC designs LMFAO

🌿 ⠀⏖ ⠀statuses ⠀:

• i'm almost always on 🌙, so you can whisp me to get my attention if I don't poof
• if I'm ⛔ it means I'm in the middle of something/a convo, or very low energy for socializing, so I may respond with a delay if i don't have a DNI(UF) in the name
• sometimes i may be in offline just due to low spoons

🌿 ⠀⏖ ⠀boundaries ⠀:

• honestly i don't have much of a boundary list outside of a gentle request to not talk about other zhongli ships to me directly (i can just tune it out if it's around me).
• i block and hide freely otherwise. as long as people stay in their own lanes, and don't stir shit on purpose (or for haha funnee "jokes"), i'm good with you.
• tangible reasons I'll block requests, chat, or hide fully include:
  • if you're openly against oc/canon or self ships or being non-sharing (which ... do yall genuinely think we go up to people to police for having a ship w/that canon? i don't want that energy if you think being non-sharing and curating your own space = gatekeeping)
  • publically bitch about being hidden for ship discomforts (god forbid ppl may dislike popular ships and don't want to see them)
  • or have made my friends uncomfortable
  • you have a DNI for people over a certain age (considering i fall into 25+ lol)
  • only a very temporary hide for ships that make me uncomfortable, and usually i'll just move away 80% of the time
    • people are more than welcome to do the same if i'm sitting as a ship w/someone else and it's uncomfy, i'm not a hypocrite LOL
• i'm fine w/interactions of all age ranges but since i'm only ever on 18+ servers, i'd be approaching conversations w/the idea that it's with other adults (as an aside, check out this article on the hostility of online spaces for minors)

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