!! Caspen's DNI & BYI !!
DNI list
- basic dni criteria
- Dream STANS.
- those true crime fans
- endo "systems" you guys are weird
- pro/com shippers
- people who use their mental illness as and excuse to be shitty (totally not directed!!)
- makes fun of disorders (unless its a joke ab urself and the disorder you have)
- people who fake disorders
- mocking cultures
- if you compare people
- doesn't use flash warnings (my eyes get strained easily)
- if you make fun of coping mechanisms (instant block)
BYI info
- i struggle with tone
- severe mood swings
- i'm sensitive and impulsive as all hell
- i tend to overshare
- short temper i can also be passive aggressive
- i make kms jokes and stuff
- i'm bad at spelling
- i forget to use tone tags (lmk if you need them i will add them)
- i'm bad at responding correctly sometimes
- i love talking about my hyper-fixations
- i accidentally ghost sometimes, its not on purpose!
- i block pretty freely
- i overthink SO MUCH, so be aware of that
- I'm passive aggressive if you think i am being that way please talk to me about it!
- If i make you uncomfortable PLEASE tell me. i wont be mad i promise! just tell me
- please dont use excessive tone tags on me, it feels condescending. examples "oh i see /nm /lh" "Well actually its blank /lh /info" just choose one. example "hey, its okay /gen" "its actually blank /info" "oh i see /nm" anything other than that seems insincere
- iwc and w/ care if you're a big fan of dsmp / don't talk to me ab it
- It's hard for me to understand some stuff so you'll have to be patient with me
- (irl) please do not touch me if we're not close (you'll know who you are) i prefer to not be touched a lot its just uncomfortable for me !
- Do NOT randomly vent/rant in my dms, i will be mean or just ignore you. its not my job to fix your problems
- If you start to have problems with me please just say it to my face, it's no use to say something behind someones back cause they'll probably hear about it anyways. I'd really just rather you tell me so we can solve it
- Please don't try to force things onto me, Morals, Beliefs, Opinions ect
- Censor obvious things dude and ask to tell me shit please, don't come to me randomly and go "i cant stop
cutting myself" thats not ok. (also if u bring smth up and make fun of me for smth i will go "yeah you mean when i was..certain things" just adding that on rq. i am a dick. i will bring it up if it was obvious i was a kid who needed help! me being cringe? sure! but a literal sign i was in danger? haha no. i will be a dick and bring up why i acted like that!) - My relationships always come first, that is a HUGE thing for me