anusha's yume cafe boundaries
before anything, please be mindful i am an adult with adult responsibilities, all boundaries listed here are firm

names & pronouns are here but basically refer to me as anusha or chaitanya, im ok with any prns & terms

do not spam ping me, i encourage you to ping me to get my attention however it gets to a point.

if you are a minor do not dm nor friend request me, only exceptions are people i've known for a while and they're already on my friends list.

if you have an issue or anything in general to communicate with me be direct and blunt, i will not try to guess your intentions or what you're upset about, tell me what the issue is and i will work on fixing it.

* adding onto the previous point i am also very blunt and direct with my communication, do not assume my tone and always ask for clarification if you need it

do not use tone tags on me even if it's just one, they make me feel infantilized, i won't get upset if you mess up a few times but if it's a consistent issue i will block you

do not "joke" about rape, incest, cocsa, etc... with me. i will block you.

joke flirting okay from close friends, no serious flirting, my wifeband is everything to me

i freely speak my mind (in a mature manner conductive to the conversation), please ask me for clarification on my tone or anything i say

DO NOT PLAY GLASS ANIMAL SONGS AROUND ME. i will not explain my trauma related with the band but i still ask you respect it.

i'm mirrorsharing for my yumes and i don't argue with doubles, i'm very much human connection > yumes.

* however, do not come into my dms to speak romantically about nami to me and don't interact with me at all if you're a male nami yume

it's okay to poke fun at my interests (my spin is legit isekai media LMFAO im a chud) but don't go too far with it, if i express that i'm uncomfortable then stop

avoid ANY mention of romantic/sexual teacher/student relations to me. no i don't care if they're college student & professor.

i mostly prefer to refer to my did with medical terms (like alters or parts) but i will use other terms if i feel like it.

* do not refer to me with plural terms, if an alter is using a proxy you can refer to them by their name and pronouns but i don't care if you call everyone chai/anusha.

i have a lack of empathy but i try extremely
hard to be empathetic to people, it is a lot more of a conscious effort for me than most.

my bpd, ocd & other disorders GREATLY affect my mood and behavior, if my status is dni then take that seriously as i am prone to lashing out when pushed.

i am frequently blurry and or disassociated and i have memory gaps, be mindful, kind, and patient with me

do not try to argue about misandry being "real" or "just as bad as misogyny" to me. i will just block you

thank you for reading, i promise i'm chill and awesome these r just some basic boundaries to interact with me