Why don't I say it then? I want you all the time.
Koda's boundaries ok? Listen and follow or I skin you
- Do not misgender me
Please stop misgendering me. (；‸；) It is really saddening. I go by it/it's pronouns only. Close friends & my partner can use she/her & he/him if I say it's okay, but the majority of those that misgender me are not my friends. Please just be aware of my pronouns, they're really not hard to use. I also don't use they/them, it is misgendering to use them on me. Irl friends are fine to use he/him on me, but I still expect to have my pronouns prioritized :-( Do not use she/her on me in front of my family or any adults.
- Don't make fun of me / my interests
Do not be excessively cruel to me. I get it's a hard ask but genuinely do not act like an asshole to me especially when we do not know eachother. This goes for friends aswell, though!!!!!! I do not enjoy you taking the piss out of me when it's clear I don't enjoy it. I am on T, this make's me more prone to mood swings and anger #hardlife considering I already have a PD. Making fun of me is bound to make me upset or angry and I don't enjoy either so let's practice kindness Okay 
Don't make fun of my interests!!!!!! Any!!!!!!!! Thanks. People do this alot.
- people under 15 DNI (unless for business purposes)
i'm 17 on the way to 18. i don't feel comfortable talking to 15 year olds too much anymore! would much rather 16+ friends now
- Don't assume when it comes to me
It's probably a smart idea to not take me seriously 24/7, don't assume you know what's on my mind, my intentions, or my tone. It's annoying on my end and yours, I am nearly always joking or being satirical unless the conversation is serious in nature. If you do go on and assume things, it could make you see the situation or me as worse than what it in reality is, or just completely off the mark If you get anything wrong. I don't mind being asked for clarification or my opinion/feelings in private, I will always answer and communicate if need be. I can be quite immature in my jokes, and if I ever cross a line let me know immediately, don't ruminate and blame me for not knowing weeks later.
- Don't rely on me / vent to me
Friends are Oki doki to ask for help or reach out, other's not so much. Unless I am directly involved don't make me your one source of comfort in a time of need I am not reliable nor do I really want that at all lol. Everyone needs to ask beforehand either way (besides bf). I am barely able to sustain myself at the moment and probably can't juggle both of our issues at once, I will try depending on the situation & person.
- No fat/selfharm jokes
I dont care for fat jokes, selfharm jokes, eating disorder jokes, or jokes about sh/edtwt. i do not appreciate anything like that and i feel like that should be common sense but apparently not. dont joke about me being fat or about whatever the fuck jfc 
- Don't be weird with me.
Being parasocial with me isn't cool & I don't fuck with it at all. Not 20 minutes in not ever. I hate everyone that does this. Don't act like we're the bestest friends ever I have known you for a day. Please don't be over the top or grandiose when talking about our relationship if you are not anyone in my lovemail >_> it is very uncomfortable and weird for me. Don't make sex jokes with me #taken. Please EVERYNYAN stop taking every word I mutter so seriously.. I like to joke alot. I like to make jokes about my friends being my girlfriends. Always have & probably always will. Nicole and Shig are my platonic girlfriends that abuse me. I am a gay dude & I am well aware of my own sexuality you do not need to be my personal reminder I love my boyfriend Ok? I seriously resent this one guy that Kept correcting me when I joked about being str8. Let a guy live.