hi, im jane, ishmael or velvian, nicknames are up for use so long as you ask before using them. any pronouns are fine with me as long as they arent masc, she/her is preferred though, any terms are okay again, as long as they arent masc, feminine terms preferred though. quoiromantic, asexual, transgirl, straight ally. happily married to my beautiful husband, mika. ENTP-T 5w6 social impure ambivert anxious avoidant. chronic low social battery. always interact with care or simply dont interact. dont use tonetags around me, i dont use tonetags nor do i require them. diagonsed c-ptsd, ocd, gad and adhd. english, german or japanese is okay. i am anti-harassment, i am not a darkshipper, i do not believe anyone should be harassed online. fictionkin/coping link of many. non-sharing yumeshipper with mafioso and 007n7. screen reader with moderate hearing loss.
before you interact/friend. i am very emotionally immature and unstable, in stressful situation i will overreact due to the fact i am unstable. triggers are a must with me, i do not understand social cues that well, if you have a trigger it is a must i know. i make dark jokes, if i go too far then please tell me as the last thing i want is for someone to be uncomfortable. i dont take lightly to rape jokes or jokes about my issues, if you make jokes about this kind of stuff, it is best you either dont do it around me or dont interact with me, as i will end up blocking you most likely. i struggle to socialize due to what i went through during my child hood, i will not disclose why i am this way unless we are close friends. dont only come to me to vent as i have my own issues i deal with and i will not be a good shoulder to lean on all the time, if you need to talk about your issues, ask before doing so. i have a severe phobia of spiders and rejection, please be aware of this and take it seriously as the two things bring me a lot of distress. if you have a problem, talk it out with me, holding a silent grudge does nothing but worsen the situation for you and me. please dont ever mention self harm or cutting around me, its a huge trigger of mine. i tend to be a huge people pleaser, if im too affectionate then please tell me and i will try my best too tone it down. i am not good with making boundaries, if you have boundaries or need boundaries to be made, either tell me personally or have it be somewhere i can see. i am a highly impulsive person and have a horrible lack of safety for myself. i have chronic paranoia, due to that i am always stuck in fight or flight, if my fight or flight response is triggered, please give me space.
do not interact. if you engage in ship/lgbtq discourse. hardcore darkship/proship/comship antis. under fourteen years old. anyone i knew in the past. pro-self diagonsis. thinks objectum/fictosexual is not a mental illness. if you hate any of my friends, family or if you hate my husband, dont ever interact with me if you hate my husband. people who believe in narc abuse, borderline abuse, or any type of mental illness abuse. trump/elon supporters. phighting fandom, limbus company fandom and forsaken fandom, this doesnt apply to friends or if i interact first. pro-contact paraphilias, anti parapilia. dream smp fans. endogenic, willowgenic "systems" and their supporters. "fiction doesnt affect reality". any of the philes, isms or ists. if you harass my friends or anyone close to me. obsessive love twt. zombietwt. open about fetishes/kinks. people who yumeship with mafioso or 007n7. people who are weird about any of my comfort characters. if you refuse to get help for your mental illness(es) or want to get worse. people who develop crushes within a short span of knowing someone. if you abused anyone in the past.
if i interact first, you are fine to interact, otherwise do not interact with me, you will either be ignored or blocked
interact with extreme care/iffy. any type of shtwt or edtwt. darkshippers, prosaken/homosexualchickenchops. psycho cutie fans. kaiju paradise fans/fandom. "futa ishmael" jokes. needy stream overdose fans. "im literally ame chan/kangel". drugtwt. people with sadistic/masochistic personality disorder, no im not abelist im just very uncomfortable with that type of stuff. highly sensitive people. genshin impact fans. chronically online people. anxious attachment styles. object show fans.
my primary interests. forsaken. limbus company. phighting. the days union. the districts force. grocery gang. cookie run. brandon rogers. ultrakill. mouthwashing. class of 09. needy streamer overdose. regretevator. let him go. albert and friends. buckshot roulette. pressure.
i have a lot more interests, these are just ones i am more primarily interested in.