‎ ‎ Leomord's ‎ ‎ Boundaries

‎ ‎ I am heavily disordered this affects every aspect of
‎ ‎ my life especially how I interact with others while
‎ ‎ I don't have any empathy I do care highly for those
‎ ‎ close to me, my outlook on life is that there is already
‎ ‎ so much evil in the world, why would I add to this?
‎ ‎ Ergo I am alright with people venting to me all that
‎ ‎ I ask is you ask before doing so.

‎ ‎ Additionally I am not very good at giving comfort
‎ ‎ though I do try. So I am a better person to come to
‎ ‎ for advice or simply someone to listen rather
‎ ‎ than comfort.

‎ ‎ Please don't call me Phel or Phelly unless we are
‎ ‎ close, Aphelios is fine but these pet names are very
‎ ‎ personal to me and I would prefer if strangers did
‎ ‎ not use them.

‎ ‎ I use the f slur, t slur (rarely), g slur and r slur, I can
‎ ‎ reclaim all of these. If you are uncomfortable with
‎ ‎ any of these I won't use them around you but do
‎ ‎ keep in mind I do use these.

‎ ‎ Please avoid involving me in drama, I am very tired
‎ ‎ all of the time and don't have the energy for petty
‎ ‎ drama. I block very liberally.

‎ ‎ I dislike talk of sexual topics unless we are very close
‎ ‎ so naturally avoid those along with invasive
‎ ‎ questions especially about my mutism & trauma.

‎ ‎ I dislike talking about people from my past, do not
‎ ‎ bring them up to me / show me their links / posts.
‎ ‎ respect my wishes and their privacy thank you.

‎ ‎ I feel as though this should go without saying but
‎ ‎ please don't 1:1 copy my rentrys without permission
‎ ‎ I do allow my close friends to copy and paste my
‎ ‎ rentrys and change the info however so don't assume
‎ ‎ a copy is automatically done without permission.

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