I don't have a specific DNI criteria - I just block freely if I'm uncomfortable or you're being shitty. If you have a problem with me, please try to talk it out with me. I will hear you out and try to fix anything I've done. Sometimes I get snappy but I promise I don't mean to be hostile - I will try to calm myself down and apologize.

When it comes to my kins & yumes, I for the most part have mirror boundaries - meaning if you're okay with me I'm okay with you! There are some of my f/os where I would rather it not be mentioned directly to me if you selfship with them - but I won't make a fuss over it. But I am 100% okay with kin doubles! I would prefer if that's just known and you don't come and ask me if I'm fine with doubles - being asked directly makes me feel slightly uncomfortable, I don't want anyone to ask my "permission" to kin a character, I'd rather you just go for it.

I'm not active in very many social spaces due to social anxiety, but I do really want to make friends! I'm not always the best at conversations/messaging, but I try my best. I don't really like to voice call with people very much, so if you ask and I say no please don't be pushy with it. It's always fine to message me - though I'd prefer it if you were over 18. I am an adult! If I follow you and you have an 18+ DNI you can just block me - I don't always read DNI's, so likely I just didn't notice it and followed you because your profile looked cool.

I'm not a big fan of people with defensive interests, but I won't tell them to DNI - I may just be a bit wary of you. Anyone who is big on "gatekeeping" or being posessive of their interests is not someone I see myself getting along with, however. Please ask me about my interests!! I might not know every detail about something, but I would love to share what I know.

Please ask before you vent to me. I don't mind listening and trying to give advice, but there are times it can be really draining for me. I usually won't say no when you ask, but if I do I promise it's not personal - I just am not in the right mindset.

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Pub: 25 May 2025 23:38 UTC

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