I don't have a specific DNI criteria - I just block freely if I'm uncomfortable or you're being shitty. If you have a problem with me, please try to talk it out with me. I will hear you out and try to fix anything I've done. Sometimes I get snappy but I promise I don't mean to be hostile - I will try to calm myself down and apologize.

When it comes to my kins & yumes, please don't try to act like you're "better" or "more valid" than me. I for the most part have mirror boundaries - meaning if you're okay with me I'm okay with you! There are some of my f/os I would rather it not be mentioned directly to me if you selfship with them too but I won't make a fuss over it. But overall I am 100% okay with kin doubles! I would prefer if that's just known and you don't come and ask me if I'm fine with doubles - being asked directly makes me feel slightly uncomfortable, I don't want anyone to ask my "permission" to kin a character, I'd rather you just go for it.

I'm not active in very many social spaces due to social anxiety but I do really want to make friends! I'm not always the best at conversations/messaging but I try my best. I don't really like to voice call with people very much, so if you ask and I say no please don't be pushy with it. It's always fine to message me - though I'd prefer it if you were over 18, or at the very least 16/17. I am an adult! If I follow you and you have an 18+ DNI you can just block me - I don't always read DNI's so I just didn't notice it and just followed you because your profile looked cool.

When it comes to my interests it might seem like I don't talk about them very much, but I am VERY into the things I enjoy. I simply just enjoy them privately in a way, I don't really feel the need to yap about them. But I will always talk about them if asked about them - or sometimes even just go off about them without prompting if I'm in the mood. I would love to talk to others with similar interests about them! But please don't think I'm barely into things or that I've 'stolen' them from you - 1. Most things I am into I either have been for years, or plan to get more in depth with them soon & 2. A person may introduce me to something I don't know about, but I'm respectful about that. I also personally think saying people "steal" interests is dumb because... you still have your interest! Nobody has "taken" it from you :). I'm not a big fan of people with defensive interests, but I won't tell them to DNI - I may just be a bit wary of you.

Please ask before you vent to me. I don't mind listening and trying to give advice, but there are times it can be really draining for me. I usually won't say no when you ask, but if I do I promise it's not personal - I just am not in the right mindset.

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Pub: 25 May 2025 23:38 UTC

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