I go by zari or zar my actual name is not to be used unless close nicknames are not to be given, u gotta ask 
I prefer she/her the most so I understand ur talking abt me and he/him can also be used! No they/them unless ur unsure abt my prns 
I am afab but I dont care what you call me, I may also refer to myself as a 'boygirl' and thats bcuz i identify as both and u literally cant misgender me (because idrc) some rentries might have cisfem and thats also cuz i feel like my gender identity shifts a lot when making rentries. If that makes sense?
I make slight nsfw jokes (its not obvious in the rentrycord server) if u are UNCOMFORTABLE, please tell me bcuz I dont want to make my friends uncomfy. I also do a lot ragebait and use a lot of sarcasm. If you need tonetags then will do! I use /j /silly most of the time and sometimes I cannot read text so ofc i might need it
I am also very sensitive so iwc, I cannot read without tonetags either and if you call me out (nm) then pls lmk that ur actually not mad cuz I get very anxious!!!
Keep in mind, my humor goes a long way and I often try to match energy! If you have limits, I will try to adjust to it <3 I do get annoying at times so be aware of that
Im also pretty awkward in dms so its best to talk to me in a server!