I go by zari or zar my actual name is not to be used unless close nicknames are not to be given, u gotta ask 
I'd like only she/her as i likely wont understand if you use he/him(+ others) on me. 
I am afab but I dont care what you call me, Im a cisfem!!!!! hi. Still, you cannot try and misgender me as I wont gaf.
I make a lot of jokes (+ intentionally unfunny) and im not serious. Take everything i say lightly and dont be afraid to call me out, but be gentle as i am still human :(. I also ragebait a LOT so if you dont like it, say it straight up! Id also like if you could say ur boundaries up front so i dont make u uncomfy :)
I am also very sensitive so iwc, I cannot read without tonetags either and if you call me out (nm) then pls lmk that ur actually not mad cuz I get very anxious!!!
Keep in mind, my humor goes a long way and I often try to match energy! If you have limits, I will try to adjust to it <3 I do get annoying at times so be aware of that
Im also pretty awkward in dms so its best to talk to me in a server!