Boundaries
- Refrain from involving me in unnecessary conflict.
- I prefer to handle heated moments with confrontation, efficiency in communication, and tact. If you cannot do the bare minimum of communicating, then do not try to intensify the situation by involving more parties and attaching false labels to my name; it's time-consuming and emotionally exhausting. I may forgive you if you give me a sincere apology, but do not expect us to immediately be on friendly terms again.
- I work part-time ,multiple days in a week, and may not always be available.
- I'm employed, or occasionally meet up with family and friends. Slow responses are to be expected; double texts are acceptable if it's urgent and you require my attention, but rushing me to reply by flooding my chat will not be tolerated. There are occasions where I may forget to reply, and I apologise in advance—I'm busy, and even replying can be a difficult task for me.
- I'm professionally diagnosed with mdd and anxiety.
- I present with symptoms of anhedonia—I apologise in advance if my tone or my messages appear vague; it is not my intention; it is due to my mental illness. As a result of my mental illness, I may also be slow with replies and take occasional breaks from socials. Please avoid discussing triggering topics, as I'm in the process of improving.
- Do not give me unsolicited advice.
- Absolutely do not give me advice I did not voluntarily ask for when discussing a topic that doesn't allude to me wanting support. It bothers me, and I won't ask you again.
- No suggestive or nsfw humour.
- Do not make any suggestive or nsfw comments towards me even as a joke. It makes me uncomfortable, and I won't ask again. If you continue to do so, please see yourself blocked. This also applies to anything remotely flirty.