my byi/dni
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• BYI
  • pretty foul-mouthed and loud.
  • i am outspoken and not good with social queues, this can oftentimes come off as blunt, rude, etc. it is your responsibility to communicate what is okay and what is not with me. if you dont communicate clearly i will not pick up on it.
  • i often confuse prepositions and misuse them in a sentence. this can lead to very confusing sentences and i apologise in advance, this is mainly because despite english being my first language i was raised hearing three different ones spoken at home (english, french and irish). but thats all i struggle with my english is fine otherwise
  • very exciteable. i like meeting new people, i don't mean to come off too strong
  • may give off mixed messages sorry i seriously think i'm in love with everyone i meet at first, it'll go away after a week or so. i actually find it really hard to form intimate bonds with people (platonic or romantic) and struggle with physical touch (again, platonic or romantic) so don't get startled if my attitude totally switches after that first week/month. not mad or bored or anything
  • i block very liberally dont take it personally. dont come looking for me after or sending friends after me, i will literally block someone over simply not liking a bio or something
  • i am NOT always a safe space for minors, particularly those under the age of 16. i don't mind minors interacting but if you're under 16 i'd prefer if you didn't.
  • i am extremely politically opinionated, and unapologetically so. if you're a middle-ground type of gal i will try and persuade you to form an opinion that is meaningful, and i will call you out on something i find morally unjust, regardless of how close we are. if you are uncomfortable with this type of discussion, don't interact with me.
  • i am extremely sensitive about discussions about ireland, our history, the term "pagan", and our culture. if you make any jokes about potatoes or alcoholism, do some research before talking to me because it's both offensive and blatantly shows your lack of education. feel free to ask me questions about these stereotypes (or other ones), but don't make these jokes around me unless i have specifically stated that i'm comfortable with it! which i probably won't unless we're already very close.
  • i like toxic ships and "controversial" ship dynamics. despite this i do NOT support proshippers or comshippers. if you ship human/animal, child/adult, family/family, etc, get away from me
    
    
• DNI
  • overly chronically online or remotely parasocial
  • almost all proshippers there is a VERY slim line of tolerance mainly because the label keeps being changed so idk
  • syscourse, lgbt discourse, and the like
  • bigots, not pro-palestine, conservative, unionist, etc
  • antitheistic (i don't like the CONCEPT of organised religion, but i hate people who dog on ANYONES religion or beliefs even more. i am a religious individual - don't mistake me being queer and alternative for not being a practicing faithful. thank u o7)
  • anti cluster b disorders (that includes narcissistic and antisocial)
  • if you actually give a single fuck about cringe culture