art by toxifurever
- do not ping me unless it is important, or if i ask you to
- do not dm me unless it is important, if i ask you to, or we have dmed before regularly
- frq are okay
- do not roleplay as me
-------------------------------------------- - do not use they/them on me ( this includes referring to me plurally )
- do not treat my alters as the same person ( calling us tel collectively and using he/him collectively is okay )
- do not talk down to me. i dont care if youre older i dont care if youre higher ranking. dont treat me like a child
- if youre unsure if we're friends, please just ask! if youre ayc staff, it is a yes :-) i consider all stafflings my friends with varying degrees of closeness.
-------------------------------------------- - nicknames are ok! but no petnames unless you are my boyfriend.
- that said do not flirt with me unless you are my boyfriend
- do not use ttgs on me other than /silly. i will use ttgs on you per your request but i do not typically use them
- kys jokes and slurs are ok
-------------------------------------------- - for oomfs, if we are doubles, please refrain from mentioning said yumedouble in front of me/if im present in chat
- please dont show/discuss anything relating to emetophobia or entomophobia (bug words are ok but images scare me). please also never ever mention weight, calories, eating disorders, etc etc around me. it can and will send me into an episode
- i struggle with extreme memory issues/gaps. please be patient with me and my ability to remember information. please give me reminders if i ask for them!
- im not gonna list all of my disorders on a public rentry LMAO but do consider how they effect my empathy, motivation, memory, etc.
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you can find alter-specifics here
you can find my f/o list here