won't get along if you:

• partake in dumb internet discourse
• use excessive amounts of slurs
• shame others for their interests
• are bigoted, racist, homophobic, fatphobic, religiously intolerant etc. (or joke about these while not belonging to the group)
• ignore politics
• are insecure or tend to take things personally

just be a decent, not-hateful person, and we won't have any trouble. list is open to updates.

my warnings

• i am passionate about my interests and enjoy debate about them. if this makes you uncomfortable, let me know and i'll tone it down
• the way i speak might seem condescending; i promise i am not trying to condescend you. please don't assume malicious intent and try to get to know me better
• teeny tiny social battery accompanied by lots of other issues that make each other worse. sustained interaction is very difficult for me and i am horible at replying to messags. it's not personal. i promise i will, one day.
• if ^ becomes a problem then talk to me and we can figure something out

good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. i'm a very open-minded person. talk to me if you feel bad; i won't ridicule or mock you for it. i'm probably not aware i'm hurting your feelings if i do.