i dont take 'doubles' of me seriously and will most likely disregard your identity if you are one (kins, fictives, etc.)
i will never see you as myself, my brain just automatically ignores that part of you

'doubles' are on my dni is cause i get generally uncomfortable with people that make their whole thing being me especially with my mindset above
remember that theres a difference between relating to a character and actually kinning them. if you dont claim youre me, then it doesnt count