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1. do not try to debate with me on any of these, i'm not interested in that. i want whoever disagrees with me to shut up and die ♡
2. yes, this is extremely extended. we take hating and boundaries seriously in this house, to ensure our inner circle stays good quality.

• if we have unresolved personal issues. i will not be at fault for your unwillingness to communicate, as i am always open to resolving past tensions.
  • on that note, never expect me to play mind-reader. have an issue with me? you either tell me straightforwardly so we can discuss it, or you cope and seethe in silence like a loser, just don't make it my problem.
• if you start venting to me without bothering to ask first. i won't act as a therapist to someone who doesn't respect me enough to make sure i'm in the right headspace to listen or help with someone else's problems. the world doesn't revolve around you. i will simply ignore you.
• if you push people to "forgive and forget".
  • fuck that and fuck you too.
• if you change partners twelve times a month. i have no interest in expanding my misanthropy further by witnessing someone be the ivan to twelve different tills.
  • on that note, if you value romantic affection at a much higher level than platonic affection, or if a relationship is your only priority in life. boooring.
• if you think someone can just turn 18 and magically be mature enough to be in a relationship with a 30 year old.
  • it proves the law is the only thing stopping you, not actual morals.
  • you're either a pdf file, a pdf file defender, or are actively getting groomed by someone. stay away.
• if you agree with the notion that your spouse/partner should come before your children.
• if you're a self-proclaimed "prankster" that thinks harassing customer service workers, getting physical (even pushing someone into a pool or smashing cake into someone's face), being casually misogynistic, or making fun of minorities is funny.
  • clearly, we have different definitions of "funny".
• if your friends engage in bad behaviors, treat someone badly, and you just don't care, aka operating from a "well, they did nothing wrong to me" mindset.
  • if they're capable of acting a certain way toward others, they're capable of acting that way toward you.
• i interact with the expectation that you have a basic understanding of media literacy. i have a heavy distaste for people who parrot mischaracterization of my favorites from tiktok.
• if you say shit like "it's not that deep", "the friend that's too woke", "i ain't reading allat", "non-issue". aka the four horsemen of anti-intellectualism.
• if you're above the age of 18 and still use snapchat. i do not trust anyone who hasn't left that devil's app in middle school. /hj
• if you're bisexual or under the bisexual umbrella and scream "biphobia!" each time someone makes a well-thought argument to point out your privilege.
  • if you're visibly queer and predominantly date the same sex, then obviously your privilege is not in use as much and this doesn't apply to you. don't make it a 'bean soup' moment.
  • sidenote; if all you got from this is that i "don't think biphobia's real", your lack of reading comprehension and critical thinking skills are concerning. i urge you to practice them in your free time.
• i don't agree with "respecting all religions".
  • i have nothing against believing in a higher power -- i somewhat do as well, and practice religious syncretism. my general philosophy aligns with the buddhist one most.
  • i have everything against abrahamic religions, based off of man-made scriptures used to promote child-marriage, slavery, patriarchy, homophobia, and so much more.
    • don't try the "it's the culture, not the religion" bullshit with me, because guess what shaped said culture? yeah.
• people who pretend they have mental disorders for clout points. or people who saw disorder on tiktok, read one slideshow, went "oh, i probably have this!" and ran with it.
  • i'm fully aware attention-seeking behavior can often be a sign of underlying issues, i just do not care. i wish you recovery and a check-in at the nearest psychiatry hospital, away from my presence.
  • on that note, people who think everything is a sign/symtom of something. you are insufferable.
• if you feign acceptance for personality disorders, but leave at the first show of symptom.
  • the internet has normalized acceptance of mental issues, but only the things they can romanticize. my aspd will not be watered down to just "lack of empathy", it is much more than that (not to mention that a lack of empathy is not necessarily a bad thing by itself).
• if you claim to be a mental health advocate, but bash people who struggle with paraphilias (anti-contact ones exclusively in regards to paras that are potentially harmful to those unable to consent, i do not sympathize with neutral or pro-c).
• believing in 'cluster-b abuse', because abuse is abuse. there isn't a specific label that's attached to it, and it sure doesn't change just because it's coming from someone with a specific disorder.
  • this also extends to those who stereotype any type of disorder. i am not an emotionless villain and a master manipulator just because i am antisocial with narcissistic traits. do not let your consumption of media villainize us without even attempting to understand us as people or educating yourself.
  • if you use the words 'narcissist', 'sociopath', or 'psychopath' in a derogatory manner, i will make fun of you for being stupid.
• cishet males dni. cis males in general are on thin ice.
• believing misandry is as bad as misogyny.
  • go on and tell me how you believe reverse racism is just as bad as racism towards poc at this point, why don't you? you can't oppress the oppressor. uneducated mf.
• if you associate radical feminism with transphobia, puritanism, gender bio-essentialism, or any other bullshit like that, block me.
  • it tells me you have no idea what you're talking about, and i lack the patience to gentle-parent ignorant people. go read a book.
• claiming to be queer and then policing other people's identities out of ignorance of your own queer history.
  • they want us all gone. you're not gonna get picked for invalidating someone in your own community (yes, this includes lesboys, xenopronouns, etc).
  • if you see labels as itty bitty boxes people are supposed to fit into rather than tools to help us explain our personal, complex human experience and identity, we won't get along.
• believing all fujoshis fetishize gay men / all himedanshis fetishize lesbian women.
  • fujoshis are the founding fathers of fandom. show some respect. /hj
• claiming you're "not into politics" or that you can "agree to disagree" on them. you can't agree to disagree on human rights.
• claiming you're into toxic yaoi/yuri and then drawing the line at actual abuse.
  • don't get me wrong, you choose what you want to read and are allowed to have your own preferences. just don't make it other people's problem.
• treating real people as characters and characters as real people. applying real world morals to fictional worlds. being unable to distinguish reality from fiction. cherry-picking what you think is 'censorship-worthy immoral' and what you think is 'acceptable-level immoral'.
  • if you believe fictional media containing SA should be censored, i expect you to support your agenda with your heart and soul. no more consuming media containing murder, cannibalism (yep, hannibal will be forbidden from now on), or anything of the sort.
    • as a matter of fact, tell your english and history teachers their own classes should be censored for mentioning immoral classic literature that's been written, or immoral events that happened.
  • if you call abuse toward fictional minors "CSAM", stay the fuck away from me. you make me vomit.
• if you call yourself "anti-censorship" or "pro-para" but the idea of "ship & let ship" (psst... the scary word is pro-ship!) makes your asscheeks clench in fear, you're a hypocrite.
• if you're a delusional, toxic riako/gachikoi/yume/fictkin/IRL who harasses "doubles" and whatnot. please go handle your psychotic episode, lol.
• lastly, if you're friends with anyone that fits whatever is written on here. who you surround yourself with is a reflection of your own values, and i have no interest in being in contact with anyone that reflects values stated on this page.
  • last note, if your circle of friends is considered large. i'm a firm believer that a friend to all is a friend to none.

"are you actually serious about all of these?"
yes... mostly.
"you're one picky bitch."
i know. It's how i keep my circle good quality.
"don't you think you're dragging this bit?"
fair point, actually. i'll stop now.
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