BYI

OO1　:　be patient please be patient with us. we are very slow to understand most things - especially jokes, social cues, and communication in general. OO2　:　tonetags ask per conversation if tone tags are alright or not. sometimes we need them, other times if you use them on us it makes us feel like you view us as too stupid to understand your tone. it honestly just depends. OO3　:　jokes avoid making paranoia / hallucination inducing jokes around us (e.g. i'm in your walls, i'm stalking you / going to stalk you, i'm coming to your house). we are schizophrenic - we are very paranoid and hallucinate a lot. OO4　:　memory we have memory issues caused by both our DID and things outside of it. we forget to text back a lot, forget important events / dates, and forget things we do (among other things). OO5　:　empathy we have very low / selective empathy, sympathy, and remorse. usually we cannot tell when we've hurt someone or when we've done something wrong. even if we did somehow hurt someone, we won't feel bad. do not expect an empathetic / sympathetic response when you vent; we are not going to makes ourselves feel emotions we don't have for you. OO6　:　pronouns we change between we / us & me / i pronouns every other sentence. this can get confusing. OO7　:　boredom we get bored of people very quickly. we will block you and move on if we decide youre boring or not interesting enough. OO8　:　impulsivity due to our load of disorders we are very impulsive. we might impulsively start arguments or block you. OO9　:　anger we have really bad anger issues which can get triggered by the smallest things. we get stuck in bad rage/aggression episodes when our anger issues are triggered. O1O　:　urges we get lots of urges to manipulate, kill, and physically/psychologically/mentally harm other people. we act upon a lot these urges a lot. we also get urges to hurt or kill animals. idgaf if this sounds like we're trying to be "edgy," you WILL get hurt if you befriend us. O11　:　replies if we don't reply for hours even though we're online and our status is changing / we're switching between activities, it's on purpose. we struggle with replying a lot of the time. O12　:　friends due to everything you just read, we keep our circle of friends very small. we get overwhelmed when we have more than 4 friends who we talk to every day without fail. we usually try to keep only 2 or 3 close friends at a time.

DNI

we block freely. basic dni (lgbtqia+phobes, racists, sexists, etc), endogenic / nontraumagenic "systems" + their supporters + anyone who has a neutral stance on endos, ableists, fakeclaimers, anyone who believes in (insert disorder) abuse, proshippers, darkshippers, paraphiles, nonsharing yumeshippers, ""doubles" dni", blue lives matter, TCC, anti-abortion / pro-life / anti-choice, above 29, below 13, disorder fakers, people who use slurs they can't reclaim, people who believe DID / alters are spiritual attacks, religious nuts, MAGA, pro trump, far right, conservatives