Please respect my boundariesthe first time I communicate them. If I ask you to stop doing something, I'm not saying it to be rude or difficult— I'm expressing what I'm comfortable with. Repeatedly ignoring those boundaries will result in me distancing myself or blocking you either randomly or through a argument.If something is bothering you, I'd much rather you tell me respectfully than expect me to read between the lines, considering the fact im not good at guessing & i know miscommunication happens, so I'm always willing to talk things through as long as the conversation remains respectful,

I don't owe anyone constant availability. There will be days where I disappear, reply slowly, or don't have the energy to socialize. Please don't pressure or guilt trip me into responding immediately!! I'll reply when I'm able to.. The way you treat me is the energy I'll return, basically I'll mirror you. Likewise, repeated disrespect, passive aggression, or any hurtful actions shouldn't expect a different response. Don't involve me in unnecessary drama, rumors, or conflicts that don't concern me. Although I'll be showing that I have a partner, I don't appreciate it if you try to dig in like a detective at its case. I prefer resolving issues privately rather than escalating them publicly, and I appreciate people who can communicate maturely rather than refusing to take accountability.

If I block someone, it's rarely an impulsive decision More often than not, it's usually because I've already communicated my discomfort multiple times and my boundaries continued to be ignored. Me blocking someone is not a game or an invitation to argue. I appreciate people who respect "no" without trying to negotiate, guilt-trip, or push me into changing my mind!Also, avoid making assumptions about my intentions or feelings. If you're unsure about something I said or did, ask me first instead and hear my side instead of jumping to conclusions, especially if its a rumor. Please hear my side of explanation first.. I'd rather clear up a misunderstanding than let one grow. As much as I enjoy making new friends, but trust takes time for me. Please don't expect immediate closeness or access to every part of my personal life!! The more trust we build, the more comfortable I'll naturally become.

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