i swear i'll make it pretty one day </3

anyways tho
to whoever happens to stumble upon this, this is a dni page for ya to know abt my boundaries (more or less, still can't pinpoint all of them yk)

dni:

for the love of god, i dont hate kids, but if you're 14 and under, do not hmu n be friends w me (*may be a bit lenient to those i already know)
if ur 15 between 17, ur on thin ice. we're not gonna be friends either, but imma tolerate ur existence
peeps between 18 n 19, i'm watching you. while ur an "adult" by most of the world, nah, you got "teen" in ur age so ur still a kid to me. we can be "friends," but i aint sharing my whole life story with ya
basic dni criteria (racism, transphobia, homophobia, and more) ykyk. just don't be a disrespectful, narrowed minded, toxic mf pls
fake/romanticize/glorified mental disorders
anti furry
ex friends
overly sexual (being "hypersexual" is not an excuse. there are times and places when they can be appropriate to joke)
overly depress/pessimistic (clarification: listen, i understand when times can get rough (i also get depressive episodes), but dawg, if you're not doing anything to fix ur situation, at this point, ur just playing the victim or crying for attention)

byi:

i now only friend people on discord if we chat daily or occasionally. no hard feelings, it's just that I deeply value friendship, and if I feel (and see) you aren't putting at least some effort into it, im putting myself first n unfriending you after some time (my dms are open tho)
i don't block freely. I stay in my lane and in my lane only. do whatever tf u want, live ur life or end, idc. if you're fucking blocked, good job: I will never forgive you for whatever u did
im undiagnosed, but ik for sure I got some type of depression. as a result, I withdraw and isolate myself to heal from impulsive n intrusive thoughts. give me at least 3 days to recover, and I'll be back like nothing (if it's like a week or two, then um, maybe be a lil concern)
im a yapper, but i am shy when confronting new people without one of my friends beside me. so, in others, im an anxious introvert
I have trust issues
I overexplain
I'm clingy but fucking hate across as overbearing or anything that's annoying: anxious attachment style
i mirror/give energy back; if ur wondering why im dry, pot meets kettle. however, if you do exceed my own enthusiasm, I will be more on the calmer side
i will joke suggestively/offensively within context
im slow, take most things literally, and have a difficult time remembering some things

*if we're gonna be friends on discord, i expect for us to talk daily or occasionally with ofc some heavy talk (aka getting to know each other more)

i'll add more or wtv whenever i get the chance