Byi!

i am a very active person. mainly when talking about my current hyperfixation (shorts wars/cdot related media) . so please dont bring them up if youre uncomfortable with people being hyperactive.

i go through very constant mood switches. please dont pressure me to text back / spam when my mood % is 50% or under, or i have dnd on. youre still free to int with me (unl my status says otherwise) but i might not reply back

i often get very attached to a specific friend at times. if i seem more distant from you than another friend pls dont take it personal!! i love all my close friends equally <33

i cannot STAND when people make being cdots "biggest fan" a competition. if i say it, pls know that EVERYTIME i say it its a joke / exaggerated. and please, for the love of everything. if ur a cdot fan, dont compare how much i love cdot to how much u love cdot. we both love cdot, were both fans of cdot, thats it theres no patriarchy or nothing of "fan-ness of cdot".

but also dont try and pretend you know more cdot than me if ure not actually a huge cdot fan. i just find that disrespectful (especially if u use owned cdot merch as a way to "one-up" me.)

always ask to vent before venting to me. this allows me time to get into the headspace to comfort. and if i cant find it / am busy i can say no. id like to dedicate 100% of my time towards comforting if needed, but i might seem avoidant / inattentive if i cant do that to a sudden vent. im more lenient on this with friends but id still HIGHLY reccomend it.

i contradict myself very often (as, most humans imo do.) so apologies if i seem very hypocritical at times. tell me to stop & ill stop

I unfortunately am not a mind reader, so PLEASE inform me if i make someone upset or accidentially break the rules of smth. id reccomend you to whisper/dm me if i did smth wrong. as i feel humiliated if i get called out in public for smth i didnt know was wrong. and therefore will be most likely to have a more extreme reaction to it (no hate towards the person telling me off though).

im not looking for more close friends (esp online, no this doesnt count current friends or that one sw server i talk in a lot.) but i am 100% okay with mutuals / talking on the occasion!

i use vulgar/innapropriate language as jokes at times. this includes nsfw, slurs i can reclaim, and kys/kms jokes. please tell me if you are uncomfortable with these topics. usually i dont speak on them unless i feel that i am close enough with the recieving party to do so.

i use tonetags a lot. this is to be better safe than sorry. if u would like me to tone it down just lmk and i will !! as for my stance. id reccomend you to use tonetags if you are being srs with something. usually i can tell when smths a joke but i sometimes cant tell when some1 is serious

this will be updated when i think of more to add

overall just think of the golden rule. treat others how you'd like to be treated.

if u read all of this, thank u, make sure to be kind (it isnt that hard!) and drink some water <3 back to main