Random infodumps. Lighter vents. PDA. Sharing other socials. Exchanging pictures. Spamming. Nicknames && Petnames. Asking me about my cultures, spiritual practices, or art. Asking about my sources, yumes, kins.

( Or Warn )

Heavier vents. Silent calls. Streaming (without having to talk). Using Tone Tags with me. Asking about my family / living situation. Plural terms.

Asking for a specific part to be out. Asking who's fronting (unless we're close). Assuming anything about me. Voice calls (unless you're my wife). Flirting Jokingly (unless we're close). Initiating random Discourse. Sexual Jokes directed at me. Detailed trauma talk. Feminine pronouns and terms (unless you're addressing a specific part who's okay with it). Talking about your yumes or kins to me, if they match mine.

┄ I'm not a fan of pings, but please do if it's anything important.

┄ I make kms jokes but not kys ones. Please don't say kys to me and don’t incite it as a joke.

┄ Interact with care, be decent, I'm grown and I find banter annoying unless we're super close.

┄ No plural terms unless we're close. Also I prefer medical terms when referring to DiD. I switch between Alters and Parts as a term.

┄ I don't have that many introjects, however I don't really care about source talk as I personally don't see my sources as particularly relevant. I have fun discussing them occasionally, just because most of them are also interests of mine.

┄ I am happily taken by my lovely wife. Do not flirt with me in a serious way.

┄ I have a very complex inner life. I only give out limited information about my parts. I do not share all my parts online.

┄ I have an empathy && sympathy deficit , but I still try. I cherish effective communication above all else. I am often low energy and need a lot of breaks && time alone. I am semi verbal; However I can talk a lot occasionally, with specific fronts.

┄ Always be crystal clear about your intentions and your issues with me. I am tone deaf and struggle understanding other humans. I genuinely won't know what you feel or mean if you stay vague.

I get a lot of emotional amnesia and occasional grayouts. I am often blurry, or multiple parts are blended in front。