I am heavily disordered, and it impacts nearly every aspect of my life — especially the way I interact with others. My view is that there is already enough cruelty in the world, so I see no reason to contribute to it.

I’m not particularly good at offering comfort, though I do try. I’m much better suited for giving advice, listening, or simply being present rather than providing emotional reassurance.

Please do not call me Bucky or Buck unless we’re close. Those nicknames are personal to me, and I’d prefer strangers not use them.

I also dislike talking about people from my past. Please don’t bring them up to me or send me their posts or links. Respect both my wishes and their privacy. back