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I am a very paranoid person. Very small, seemingly insignificant, things can completely set me off. Because of this, I prefer for you to always interact with some level of Caution ⠀&⠀ Care, but don't feel as if you must walk on eggshells around me!
If you have any issue with me, big or small, please communicate that to me. I require Clear ⠀&⠀ Concise communication; otherwise, I probably won't fully comprehend what you intend to say. In short, this means do not sugarcoat your words, downplay your feelings, or be purposefully aggressive or mean/rude.
- Piggybacking off of this, please do not bring our personal problems to uninvolved people. I will immediately block you if you do this, as it's childish and makes me feel as if you're unwilling to put any effort into solving things. If you have issues with me, then tell me.
- I get attached to people rather easily; if you ever feel like I'm being uncomfortably clingy or possessive towards you, please let me know and I will back off!
Note that I do have AuDHD and struggle a lot with the symptoms of both. That, paired with personality disorders like BPD, DPD, and clear traits of NPD and AvPD, will affect how I interact with people. I have a tendency to self-isolate and push people away; it's never anything personal, and I will come back around. Please just give me time and patience!
I struggle with saying no and declining things—please do not pressure me. It makes me incredibly uncomfortable and nervous to be around you. I don't like people being pushy or constantly nagging me to do things.
I will take any romantic or sexual comments/advances to be playful and platonic. I will let you know if I'm ever uncomfortable with things you say towards or about me, but I am fine with most things, granted you are over the age of eighteen.
Last but not least, I am incredibly defensive and protective over things I deem important to me and my identity. This includes, but is not limited to, my (special) interests & hyperfixations, introject sources & kins, things I associate heavily with myself, et cetera. I despise people competing with me over things like this; I will decimate you!!