⟣ inspo-wise
- always credit me, whether it's light or heavy inspo or a direct copy, please credit me at all times. i take inspo from other people, so crediting me helps people i took inspo from to be found as well.
- asking me for templates is allowed, if i ignore you, that is a no or i've forgotten. if you are blocked do not ask me for anything, you will be ignored as i do not open blocked messages.
- if it occurs to you that you don't want to credit me all the time, you can commission me to do your sp personally. i typically take nitro for this, you can dm me @heartkept on discord to talk it out.
- don't befriend me to get layouts, i wouldn't be saying this if this has never happened before.
- when adding my sp, DO NOT copy my parts. this is parasocial, unoriginal and unflattering. don't do this. in the same vain, i don't add endos or pro-endos even if you are traumagenic.
⟣ interaction-wise
- my social battery is very fragile. it usually depends on which part fronts, but i typically don’t have a sense of urgency to reply to those i’m not particularly close with. i tend to forget about your existence due to my terrible object permanence. i do however, do well with individuals that have no issues texting me first most of the time and knowing that a reply isn’t always guaranteed.
- in the same note, please don’t rush me for a reply. i genuinely tend to forget, or i don’t possess the energy to reply at that moment.. it doesn’t hurt to send more messages, i promise. sometimes, after taking a break, i forget to respond to you. if i don’t like you, and i don’t want to talk to you, i would not leave you unblocked in the first place, i promise it’s not intentional.
- i can’t always communicate what’s wrong with me, or every change that happens. thus, why i have simplyplural, it’s a tool for me and it helps me greatly. do note that i have a lot of sensitive information on there with no filter on my parts, if you don’t like it; don’t add me at all. i don’t want to tone down for the sake of strangers,
⟣ system / DID
- please use only singular terms on me. i don’t use we/us at all if ever. plural terms make me uncomfortable and make me dissociate.
- please, treat my disorder as something serious and clinical. i don’t want my disorder to be treated like a character fantasy at all,
- i use “parts” when referring to my own system ONLY. in the same vain, i don’t use endo-coined terms like “fictive” or “factive.” clinical terms, or terms made by traumagenics only.
- i coin my own terms, and this is only for the better understanding of my own system and breaking down it’s functions. do not fakeclaim me over this. i am medically recognized with UDD, and i therefore have absolutely nothing to prove to you.
- trying to trigger my parts out, have absolutely no effect on me… please don’t try this. ( e.g. mentioning a specific interest of a part so that they front. ) because it won’t work, front requests are also a no, it again doesn’t work with me and just causes me to delude and confuse myself that this part is there. ( they are not.. )
- i don’t care how disabled or colored you are, don’t use slurs on me if we’re not close. i don’t care if you can reclaim, close individuals can call me slurs, do not call me the n word. ( i am blasian. however, i don't like it!! )
- avoid the topic of religion, or god in general. this is ONLY limited to christianity / islam / judaism. other religions, i’d love to get into and hear, this is a strict boundary that i will not let go. you are only allowed to talk about this around me in an educational context whereas discussing the unhealthy and underlying issues of human faith in “god.”