anusha's extended about

i am a 22 (jul. 3 2004) year old agender lesbian who also identifies as a sex repulsed asexual and fluctuating on the aromantic spectrum. i have a wife whom i love dearly and am strictly monogamous with.

you can use any pronouns & terms on me including neos, idrgaf. i am a full time university student—i major in social work—and i work ~30 hours weekly in a healthcare related job. as such i am often too busy or tired to respond to people, i have a habit of consistently leaving people on read and not replying for months, if this will upset you dni for your own sake.

i have a plethora of mental and physical disorders that effect my life daily, i will not list them all but please take care to interact with caution around me.

i do not vent to random people online, my personal matters are either kept to myself or discussed with my wifeband & close friends. do not talk to me expecting my whole life story. along with this, many people see me as an older sister figure which i don't mind, however remember i am a person as well and someone who works in healthcare, always ask before venting and don't be offended if i say no. i often go through caregiver fatigue.

i am a lhotshampa and mixed nepalese bhutanese and ethnically tibetan. i am a practicing buddhist and i ask those triggered by talks of religion dni with me for their own sake.

i ask no tone tags be used on me at all and prefer not to use them myself but i will if you need them. i encourage pinging & dming as i may not see messages otherwise.

i have a loose sense of who i am and my own identity due to my disorders, so i often will ask people what they think of me/what they relate me with, if it annoys or bothers you let me know and i will stop. additionally, i require reassurance frequently but i usually will not openly ask for it, however if it bothers you when i do let me know.

i require blunt and direct communication, i often don't know when things are jokes and alternatively when things are supposed to be serious as i have a difficult time understanding and conveying tone, if there is an issue with me then tell me up front what the issue is and we can work it out.

that is all!!! thank u for reading!!! bye bye!!!