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TONE — autism makes me awful with understanding and getting tone across. never assume my tone, especially in a negative light. people do this so much & then react accordingly... it's not fair to me when i didn't mean it that way. you could have just asked me "did you mean it that way" or "I took it as..." — following this, i don't like tone indicators because they make me feel infantilized & i read them the opposite way. no: /nbr || yes: "not in a mean way"

REPLIES — if you message/ping me, i will eventually respond since i check my notifications. unless a day or more passes, don't bump it. my battery fluctuates and i usually respond to messages on my own time.

INTERESTS — I'm low functioning and really protective over my special interest, forsaken. i want to talk to people and get them into it, but i don't want you to insinuate you like it more than me... and it also means i don't want you to larp it. i jest but i absolutely hate mischaracterization. i love all of the characters and i do have hcs / project but i always have reasoning from the lore i can point to. also, i really only play / focus on roblox.

IDENTITY — it may seem silly but please don't diminish / stereotype me if that makes sense...? some jokes r ok but i don't like ones such as because i'm transmasc = i'm just a man. i was raised as & face afab harrassment.

RESPECT — this may seem oddly specific but it's happened more than once. don't ever insinuate that i am "lucky" or you are "jealous" of my trauma. i don't care about your reasons behind it, it fundamentally changed me, and my opening up about it is not your fetishistic invitation. also, please don't yell or raise your voice at me.

PLEASE — if you've wronged me in the past to an extreme extent, i'm uncomfortable around you and i'm too nice to turn you away. for both our sakes, please take a hint and don't reach out to me. if you've done awful things t'me and think it's about you, it's better to assume you are included.