call me Alexander Hamilton the way I'll write the other 51.
H-heh... guess im writing this cus...yeah, MY monster is telling me to do this too, Nine...
It's funny how you now mention that you're checking my profile and rentry out of missing me, however when I do it I'm ' stalking you '? I hate to say it but this seems a bit hypocritical. Am I also not allowed to joke about a past situation, by your logic?
Need I also mention that.. you seeing my status is apparently ' my fault ' when last I checked you were the one to unblock me? I dont care whether you have me blocked or not, or whatever the hell you're doing, I believe I'm allowed to joke about it to my friends.,
That's fine, I can provide you a list written by my dear husband ( who has awful memory and still remembers all this ( his words, not mine.) ):
- sided with people that told me to kms
- sent borderline porn / smut writing to a gc and myself
- befriended with your ex and defended them
- said that i made him uncomfortable with sex jokes then told u to ride his dick
- made an inappropriate comment "ride my dick" to you which goes against your boundaries and just... you're a minor and aroace
- he has stalked you and uzi on multiple accounts
- broke dni several times, even his own
- continues to harass you
Genuinely, what do you mean by this? I'm curious as to where you're seeing me spreading missinformation about you. Everything I've said or joked about has been in it's correct context. If you're willing to explain this point further you're more than welcome.
Saying I ' flamed you ' is odd in my opinion. You do realize that from my standpoint, one of your friends had basically said that they wanted my husband to commit suicide. That by itself is one thing, but the fact that you, my best friend at the time, was trying to tell me to my face that it was ok because ' they're just joking ' is just insane to me. Of course I was upset by this at the time, but after you told me you left them it wasnt like I was telling everyone you were still defending that point. Either way, it's still insane to defend that and I'm glad you realize that now. Bonus point: The way you write this feels like you're trying to downplay it. " just because they made a joke that slimer should kill himself " it nearly sounds like you still see it as not that serious.
Below is a message my husband, the one affected by this, wrote:
Hey Ranb! I'm honestly pretty tired of you and everything you've done so congratulations, you're finally getting a statement by yours truly. A little fact about me is a few years back, I attempted twice; one at school, one overdosing. And then, I had that argument with match and the other guy I give 0 fucks about, and then they say I should kill myself. You claim its a joke, but how can I know that with how belittling they are and how they continuously attacked me for a stupid argument and was clearly butt hurt about it. If they were truly joking, you would've recognized it before you sent it to Ash, and realized, "Hey... I know they're joking so I'm not gonna add wood to the fire and make this worse!" Because that's what you did. The screenshot of them saying I should kill myself is my banner and by the Gods I'm not changing it because it is both funny and it reminds me how hypocritical, irrational, and stupid you can be sometimes. You can claim I'm attacking you, but think about this: do I care? And also, I don't care if you think it is or isn't a joke. You didn't say it. You know who did? Match and the other guy. No one can excuse it or forgive them for it besides for me, because it was about me. Not about you. Not about Ash, Uzi, whoever else. Me. So unless I get an SINCERE apology from them, I'm taking it seriously. Because it is never okay to say someone should kill themself because you don't know what they have ever gone through.
I wanted to try and be as civil and professional throughout this response. I'm aware that bias can completely break a defense or argument, but oh my god. What gives you the right to tell me that MY ex changed. You barely know a thing that person did to me, and you're trying to tell me they ' changed '? Do you understand how insane it feels to be told that ' no! You aren't allowed to hate your ex, theyve changed! ' when they've proven to me time and time again they haven't. This is NOT your business, nor is it your business to defend someone you barely know.
Bonus point: I don't genuinely want my ex to kill themself. As much as I hate them, want NOTHING to do with them, and think they're an awful person who refuses to change, If I were told they went through with it I wouldn't feel good with myself. Suicide is still a serious thing, I'm aware of that.
I'm not gonna write anything here, but instead give more room for Slimer to talk. This isn't my part to speak on, but his.
This part is meant for "changed" message dear Match wrote. Ranb, just for you, I will say this simply. Bad people can lie and be nice to some people, then still be bad people. Again, I don't give a fuck if you forgive Match or not, they still told me to kill myself!
And if Match ever sees this, this is for you specifically.
You may be apologizing to Ranb, and you may think that you've changed, but you are still someone who told me to kill myself. You were a bad person, and you were attention seeking when you sent that to Ranb. You were rude. And I do not believe you have changed, grown, matured, however you want to word it because you never apologized to the person you actually affected. Even then, who the hell can blame me if I don't accept your apology.
Now for both of you, I'm not shocked y'all got along so well! You sound the exact fucking same! Match apologizing to the wrong person and saying that you're a changed person, then Ranb saying you've changed and pointing fingers at someone.
You're both hypocrites.
Am I just.. not allowed to ever mention you again? I don't remember this being an agreement we ever mentioned during everything. I think I'm allowed to talk about what happened to other people, just because you dont doesn't make you some ' better person ' or anything.
I can understand your point here, but at the same time you cant control what my stauses are. If you were paying attention you'd know I wasn't ever responding nor talking DIRECTLY to you in any of my statuses. Again, I'm allowed to make jokes with my friends. Stauses can be apart of jokes, and yet again you're the one who unblocked me. I'd be making these statuses whether you saw them or not, I don't care. The joke is being made with my friends and my friends only.
You're not the only person on my hatemail. I made that hatemail with every single person on it in mind, and the reason it exists in the first place is because my other friends were also making hatemails.
.+ another thats currently down
Ok, I'm gonna be honest here. I do think the stalking situation was a tiny bit overdone, however you're failing to take Uzi into consideration here. Uzi wasnt the host of the mafia, however you were aware that they'd be uncomfortable knowing you were in the same game as them. Whether you think this is unreasonable or not, you should've left either way. You should be capable of missing out on one game for the sake of someone's comfort. Also, the entire reason the pony was mentioned was because Uzi had changed styles entirely since the initial drama in June or whatever. It was taken seriously because you shouldn't have been able to recognize it, yet you did.
Bonus point: you also mention under this screenshot that i was ' worked up over [you] sending a screenshot of [my] pony ' I wasn't. The reason I was acting so serious was because Uzi was there, I dont care if you recognized me. I understand this is probably from what was said in the GC, which wasnt said by me btw.
I really dont know what to say here. As your friend in the past I never would've assumed you'd defend Match and Wildcard, so how was I to assume you wouldn't do that aswell? You already betrayed my trust once, and besides what else was I meant to assume? The facts are all there. I also want to mention how you're now saying I never cared about you, have you ever considered I was busy or something? Just because I forgave you the first time doesn't mean we're gonna be best friends again and act like nothing ever happened, you know.
I can understand where you're getting at here. I'm realizing now I was implying they were bad people, which I do not have any proof of and therefore I can't make that claim. I will be removing their part from my hatemail, however I am allowed to dislike them just from what I know of them. Their humor to me is gross and not something I'm comfortable with, but of course that doesnt warrant being accused of being a morally wrong person.
CLOSING STATEMENTS
This entire situation is not something I was expecting to wake up to today. More negative words or arguments isn't fixing anything, nor giving me any sense of ' justice ' or ' revenge ' against you. Take this response however the hell you want, I dont care.
However, I do have some more words from Slimer:
Closing statement.
I'm finishing this over with my main points. First off, Ranb, congrats on actually using Ash's name and not an old one! We all know you can see his discord, so why not have an ounce of respect? And yes, I'm aware I'm not using yours. How does it feel? Second of all, I don't forgive you or Match for anything you have done that affected me. Third of all, get a grip and leave us alone. I promise that if you ever contact Ash or Uzi you will hear from me and I won't be kind because I am tired of you harassing my friends. I am tired of having to deal with your bullshit from the sidelines. I am tired of having to protect my friends in the best way I can so just do me a simple favor. Block us. Ignore us. Move on. Have a good day or not, see if I care.