- refrain from involving me in unnecessary conflict.
- I prefer to handle situations with communication and tact. Do not intensify the problem by involving more parties than necessary and attaching false labels to my name.
- I work part-time, I'm a student, and I'm not always readily available.
- expect delayed responses or no replies. I try my best to respond, but sometimes I can also be forgetful, as my schedule is not always free. You can msg me later to remind me, but don't take this as an opportunity to flood my dms.
- I'm professionally diagnosed with mdd.
- I sometimes experience anhedonia, so I may reply vaguely—this does not mean I'm uninterested.
- no unsolicited advice or trauma dumping.
- do not give advice that I did not ask for. It bothers me. Please also do not vent without gaining permission; I'm not your caretaker.
- no suggestive humour.
- anything remotely nsfw, suggestive, or flirty directed towards me even as a joke makes me uncomfortable. Please avoid doing this or see yourself blocked.
- do not send/show me nsfw.
- do not send or show me nsfw when I never explicitly asked for it; it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and it will result in a block.
- do not be clingy.
- do not be too clingy or affectionate towards me, even if we're close. I'm quite avoidant, so it irks me, and I most likely won't respond.
- do not ship me with my friends.
- this honestly makes me really uncomfortable, and I don't fw it.