we're bodily 20 & a poc, so overall we don't want people -17 bodily interacting (unless it's for something EXTREMELY important & will only be for that thing, which is an exception)
- we operate more collectively in certain aspects (eg. relationships) so please do not expect ANYTHING romantic, we'll be putting your application through The Psys Council for review (LIGHTHEARTED BUT. still.)
- as a disclaimer, we DO say slurs we can reclaim. if it makes you uncomfortable just say so and we'll hold off on saying them with/around you
- we do also take a bit to develop a close bond with people, & with work/university its VERY easy for us to forget about dms. On top of this, we're generally pretty reserved and comfortable with the people in our life, so we don't put ourselves out there much if at all. None of this is personal btw, and if we've forgotten a dm just send us a follow up msg & I promise we'll respond!
BIG THING HERE! We cannot read tone/emotions for SHIT. I'm so serious None of us can. Some of us may take something personally, some people may not understand that you're upset at all, others may completely misunderstand what you mean, etc. So, if you're upset/uncomfortable with something we did, please Tell Us and we'll fix it. You have to communicate in relationships, don't be surprised if yours fall through if you don't.
This should be obvious but dont ask for an alter to front. We completely understand checking in with/about an alter you're closer with, but don't act like theyre the Only person in the system. This goes for both new friends and even our closest of loved ones (though they know this already LOL)
last thing is that we all enjoy discussing our interests (to varying degrees of excitement LOL) so we might yap a bit too much, & if youre not feelin' up for it just let us know, we wont take it personally
In terms of a DNI, we just prefer nobody bodily -17 interacts with us. Outside of that, it's just basic criteria like being transphobic/racist/zionist/etc (tcc falls under this I don't care what you say) OR being a proshipper/darkshipper/etc
While we don't care for mindless discourse (especially queer discourse and syscourse), darkship content isn't something
we like around us for personal reasons, please respect that.